![]() Going for walks in my neighborhood has helped quite a bit as well as well as taking my younger children to the library and MOPS. Now that we moved again and my oldest is in elementary I am having such a hard time finding friends. It is so difficult to break into a group the first time we moved away from anyone I knew I got lucky and joined a moms group that was just beginning and so we were all looking for friendships because none of us really had any mom friends. I have this same problem except I do dress nicely (although not business, I am a SAHM). I couldn't bare to see her face at a birthday where no friends show up. I guess I'm saying it looks like a divide maybe.Īny other day, in any other situation, I'd say screw them, but for my daughter's sake I need to try and infiltrate this secret mom club. I wear jeans and a tshirt, long hair down with no jewelry. whereas I feel like a kid around them, not sure if that makes since. I mentioned my age earlier, these women are all. My daughter is good friends with their kids and the kids begged to sit together so I just sat on my blanket next to this group of moms and felt like an idiot. At the movie night, they all saved each other seats (the moms) and spent the entire movie talking. I am quite an introvert but I make an effort to be friendly and get out of my bubble at events like that since I'm hoping these moms will allow their kids to come to my daughters birthday. We go to family night at school, movie night, class parties. So I try to put her in theater programs, dance class. have an infant now), and has no cousins her age. My daughter was an only child (until 4 months ago. The few I have found, have not accepted my friend request after me messaging and saying who I am. She's making friends left and right and I'm trying to find her friends mom's on facebook. My daughter started elementary here and loves it. I got married 3 years ago to a wonderful man and this past fall we moved from a small apartment an hour from a big city to a big city right smack in the middle of a rich neighborhood. Love our age difference, not sure if it matters in this story but I think it's relevant. If you don't see your post in the new section, please message the mods. Want to share a blog? Please link it in our monthly blog thread, and don't forget to post it at /r/mombloggers! Downvotes are for comments that add nothing to the discussion. Please don't downvote opinions just because you disagree with them. We've been there (some more than others) and we want to help. Please feel free to post ANY question, no matter how "silly" or irrational you think it is. ![]() Offers or requests of assistance are not allowed and may result in a ban. Unkind comments or personal attacks may result in a ban. "Am I pregnant?" and preg test posts will be removed.īe Kind. Moms only, whether commenting, or posting. NO blogs or surveys outside the stickied monthly blog/survey post, absolutely NO promotions/advertising. We want to be here for other moms who are going through the same experiences and offer a helping hand. It may not always be pretty, fun and awesome, but we do it. We are moms mucking through the ickier parts of child raising.
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